Book Review: 'Find A Way' A Must Read For Sports Fans
Merril Hoge is a face you see on ESPN if you watch football shows, or hear on ESPN radio occasionally if you listen to sports talk with any regularity.
As such, and as a football fan much of my life, I had this vague feeling that I knew who Hoge was.
Former fullback for the Pittsburgh Steelers and Detroit Lions. Forced to retire due to severe concussions. Became an ESPN (whom I often think is off base, by the way). Survived a battle with cancer.
I knew these things. I have never met the man, however, and I really didn't know him. Today, I still have not met him but I feel like I know the man. Probably much better than I know people I would call friends.
That is because I recently received a copy of Hoge's book, "Find A Way: Three Words That Changed My Life" from Center Street Publishing.
It is a very personal, stirring story of how Hoge used those three words -- 'Find A Way' -- to overcome a series of obstacles in his life. First, to fulfill his lifelong dream of making it to the NFL. Then, to become a top-notch player in the league. Next, to find his way as a television analyst even though his brain had basically turned to mush due to the severity of his concussions. Finally, simply to survive when cancer tried to knock him down for good.
Besides, you have to respect any man willing to share the story of how he was once hit so hard (by Seth Joyner of the Eagles) that he actually crapped his pants right there on the field.
Seriously, Hoge spares few details of his life in trying to find a way to inspire people to live the best lives they can. Here is how Hoge explains his reason for writing the book, along with Brent Cole.
"I would not have written this book if I were not rooting for you to find a way to your own victories. I know you can."
Hoge talks about how he began using the words "Find A Way" to pursue his dreams even as a young boy. He talks candidly about his abusive father, with whom he still has little or no relationship. He talks about how only one college, Idaho State, saw fit to recruit him to play football. He talks about how scouts told him flatly that he was too slow to be an NFL player. He talks freely about having to relearn almost everything, including how to read, when concussions obliterated much of his cognitive ability. He talks about his daughter, Kori,' who was only nine at the time, throwing the words "Find A Way" back in his face when he revealed to his family that he had cancer. Words that helped him fight the disease.
There is plenty of football talk in this book. But, it is not a football book. It is an inspirational book about a man's fight to push his way through every obstacle put in his way, and be the best he can be.
It is well worth the $21.99. Even if you aren't crazy about Hoge's work at ESPN.
[CAPTION CONTEST: I actually received an extra copy of the book from Center Street Publishing. If you want a free copy e-mail bigblueview@gmail.com with your best caption for the photo at the top of the story. I will send the winner a copy of the book. I will accept entries until Wednesday at midnight.]
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Rolle
calling everyone out. step aside JT, Antrell will be new team captain shortly….
this is from giants 101.com
In a morning interview with WFAN, New York Giants safety Antrel Rolle wasn’t doing much damage control. Rather, Rolle questioned the coaches, their decisions, his teammates and their ability on the field.
Rolle claimed the defensive gameplan was faulty, and even when the right schemes were called, the players were unable to execute properly. He also questioned his teammates for not standing up and being vocal, and criticized the organization for having the team arrive to Lucas Oil Stadium three and a half hours early. Allegedly, the team merely sat around for hours and was "too relaxed" because of it.
"I don’t think the coaches gave us a chance and I don’t think we gave ourselves a chance," Rolle said.
The meltdown continues. We’re only two games into these season and already Brandon Jacobs and Antrel Rolle have lost control.
"It seemed like they weren’t into the the game. No one was enthused, there was no excitement, there was no swagger out there on the field, which actually drove me crazy," Rolle added. "I don’t really understand what it was."
Love it!
Thank you Rolle! After that performance someone has to say something. I love it! It’s about time someone came out and said something.
No maybe you can argue that should stay behind closed doors. I will listen to that. However, this team lacked energy. They were outplayed. Did anyone see the 49ers last night in a loss? Those guys were playing. It made the G-Men look like they were going through the motions.
These guys need a swift kick in the butt. Rolle, I commend for trying to give it. Let’s see how they respond.
Good work trell
we need players like this….. players who dont quit on us…..hint hint ill let all of you decide who does and dont i wont say names
Not sure I call that leadership
Calling out your coaches publically is not cool. Even if I happen to agree w/the substance of what was said.
by Ed Valentine on Sep 21, 2010 1:15 PM EDT up reply actions
its likely
that Tuck will not be the leader that this team needs. he’s too cerebral. you need vim and vinegar. and Rolle has it. i think he could have tweaked his comments to not call out the coaches, and calling it like it is hasnt been rewarded from a player/coach perspective here. but its all we have been talking about for the last 2 days… scheme scheme scheme. ie the coaches…
i agree
i just wonder how the coaches will react to this.
Do me a favor, fellas
Take the comments on Rolle over into the post I just made linking to the audio.
I only vaguely remember Hoge as a player...
and I never have anything to do with ESPN, but it sounds like his book is worth a read. I’ll also toss out a “photography book” as a recommendation. It’s called “Kids at Work” by Russell Freedman and is a collection of the photographs of child labor in the U.S. taken by Lewis Hine in the early 1900’s, along with accompanying text. Basically it’s a glorified picture book in black and white for about $10.
I’ve given away several copies over the years to kids I’ve worked with who just seemed to find everything “too much” of a demand on them, or have felt that the world wasn’t doing enough “for them”. Some have never commented on it, while with others the point has been made.
I think he was one of the top TV analysts in picking last year...
almost as good as a few of our best (and better than accuscore)
You play to win the game!
by Simms-McConkey on Sep 22, 2010 10:34 AM EDT up reply actions
At least
he has some credibility as an analyst, was a pretty good player, and could catch passes out of the backfield too. I heard he is now mentoring not so Gentle Ben.
"No one played more for the Giants, while being coached less".
Ex-Giants coach, Steve Owens, talking about Mel Hein.
by Great Gatsby on Sep 22, 2010 2:06 PM EDT up reply actions

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